Time really flies and it has been two year since I left Oz. Still miss that place very much. Lots of memories there.

 

Life is Sg has been ok so far. Family, health, job, relationship, $...

One of my favourite Jacky song. Will learn to sing it one day. I love this sad acoustic guitar song. Poetic lyric and melody

 

詞：潘源良 作曲：黃國倫 編曲：Iskanda Ismail

紅笑臉 紅裙 紅絲巾
白紙般 坦率 還天真
一對眼 水晶般吸引
流轉的舞步 像浮雲

忘記你 但仍然想起
愈想起 更加難入寐
緊抱你 抱緊的只得空氣
明知得不到你
何必再要記起

* 一絲絲 一點點 燒毀憶記
一幅幅 一聲聲 又復燃起
怎麼捨得你
任由我 腸斷至死
戀一生 差一些 不可一起
祇一心 等一天 日月如飛
卻等不到你
願忘記 又想起你 *

情與愛 是無從更改
未更改 卻因何分開
失去你 才明白未可捨棄
但始終祝福你
寧願我這田地
Repeat * *

 

 

a zen (禅) song....

 

 

 

With the national rally speech made by the Singapore PM a few days ago, marriage and the more important issue of birth rates is back on the spot light for the XXX times.

 

You can find the transcript here  http://app.sprinter.gov.sg/data/pr/20080819982.htm

 

The govt is looking at ways for singles to get attached and get married and also increasing the incentives for couples to 努力做人. The PM is also talking about increasing productivity to be more competitive in the global market. I think the sg govt is thinking very hard about how to strike a balancing ground on both issues.

 

Productivity is relatively easy to achieve. Improve education, enhancement and break through in technology, improve resource allocations, enhance infrastructure, increasing the overall work force etc. These are dealing with tangible aspects that are relatively easy to target, measure and improve on.

 

Whereas controlling birth rates is a whole different ball game. I’m sure most people who had ever been attached or married knows what I meant. Just two people getting to meet each other, liking or not liking each other and even if they did got attached whether it will last is an unknown. There are just too much variables and some of them are intangible ones like fate, affinity and feelings and some tangible ones like education level, finance, family, religion, background, physical attractions, etc

 

An interesting thread in a public forum that discussed some of these aspects for you to ponder also

http://talkback.stomp.com.sg/forums/showthread.php?t=42192

 

Even if a couple did manage to walk down the aisle, they are not going to just start making babies. First of all, due to more and more people marrying in their 30s or later, impotence or sterility might be a problem. Secondly, even if the couples got married they might have not intention to have babies. Some are happy with pets instead. Thirdly, family planning needs to be done cos unless the family is well to do to start with, financial impact will be huge. These are a few things that I can think of at this moment and I 'm sure there are more factors that affects whether a couple will have babies or not.

 

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so
much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have
never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.

FOR EXAMPLE: One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into
bed.

Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says "I don't feel
like it, I just want you to hold me."

I said "WHAT??!! What was that?!"

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear...
"You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me
to satisfy your physical needs as a man." She responded to my puzzled look
by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in
the bedroom?"

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with
her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big
unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on
several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which one to
take so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to
compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit. We
went onto the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond
earrings. Let me tell you...she was so excited. She must have thought I was
one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because
she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play
tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey."
She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement.
Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said, "I think this is all
dear, let's go to the cashier."

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel
like it."

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled
WHAT?"

I then said "honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You're
just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy
your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she
was going to kill me, I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and
not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either.

wow, I didn't know this song exist. It's another year and now is the month of Olympic     It seems a short while ago that Sydney 2000 has just passed......time really fliesss

 

    

 

 

A store that sells husbands has just opened in New York City , where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates.

You may visit the store ONLY ONCE!

There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch….. You may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a
floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband.

On the first floor the sign on the door reads:

Floor 1 - These men have jobs and love the Lord.

The second floor sign reads:

Floor 2 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, and love kids.

The third floor sign reads:

Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, and are extremely good looking.

'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads:

Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead good looking and help with the housework.

'Oh, mercy me!' she exclaims, 'I can hardly stand it!' Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak.

She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 4,363,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.

Watch your step as you exit the building, and have a nice day!

Please send this to all men for a good laugh and to all the women who can handle the truth!

Found a blog that stream high quality of some of 伍家辉's songs. Check it out and if you like his songs, do support him by buying his album

 

 

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Other fav songs in the album

 

 

 

  

Ok, I'll probably get flames for the title, kekeke, but hey I guess it got your attention  

Btw, I think it's not bo liao that most females ask those kinds of questions, it's just their instinct and need to feel TLC and feel reassured.

 

Well said by Jet Li.